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Beaten Down
Posted by Crissa Boyink
Last night my family went out for dinner. Two men sat down at the next booth. One man stated that he hadn’t attended church for a while and felt that that no one had missed him.
The other, a pastor began talking (and seldom came up for air).
- I did notice your absence, and I’m disappointed.
- I’m so busy—just today I’m visiting three people (you’re the second), I’ve been in staff meetings, writing sermon notes, etc.
- I’ve kept tabs on you, even though I haven’t communicated with you (nevermind that my “source” provided me with incorrect information).
Why couldn’t this pastor just say, “I’m sorry. What can I do for you right now?,” rather than accuse and make excuses?
My heart ached for this man! I just wanted to interrupt the conversation and shield this man from the haughty words spoken by the pastor. Where was the love? the grace? the reflection of Christ?
I pray as Manna (un)officially kicks off in July that I become better-equipped as a disciple of Christ so that next time I’m in this situation, I’ll be able to react rather than sit by and watch another soul beaten down.

